A Random Thought !!!!

RIP Nirbhaya!

Since yesterday media is flooded with the story of the Girl Nirbhaya who got killed because of the tragic incident in her life because of some monster who roam around every part of the world.

But a random thought came into my mind that who created those monster- System, People, Girls, Culture, Upbringing, Parents, Society Or Law? Somewhere I felt all these factors have contributed a little. But basic factor behind is the mindset of the person and the fearlessness of consequences. And as a whole are we not responsible for it. We are blaming everyone else but not seeing inside.

Kabir Said-

Bura Jo dekhan mai chala, Bura na milyo koi,

Dekha jo apne aap mai, mujhse bura na koi..

We all woke all of a sudden that something wrong has happened and started shouting, blaming system and all the things in the world and after few days we will again go to sleep. Hundreds more rape has happened after that in a mean time. Had this can't be stopped????

I would like to know whether any mother has asked his son to refrain from this or they are still hiding them under their love and care. Or Any sister came in front and complaint against his brother for any wrong practice. Had any of us came forward to help a man who was in trouble. I guess the answer will be that we have not changed, we are the same as we were before this incident.

Don't you think this could have stopped if from the birth the child is given right education and guidance regarding the respect for women or I should say society as a whole. Cant it be possible that those person can be make fearful of law. But they are not as all of us let that thing happen. No one provoke corruption but we do.

Ticket nai hai -- sir 100 rs Mai kaam chala lo. Drunken driving sir 5000 Rs le ke chod do.
Murder kiya rape kiya-- mai iska ladka hu!!! mai use janta hu!!
 Don't we see these things in everyday life.

Tell me the fact that can any boy can say that he doesn't have any lust for the opposite sex. The answer for 90% will be no. Most of us have but we suppress that feeling in one way or other. If that is not the true fact then why the prostitution is increasing in India. I don't know how many of us think of this. If girls were not forced into this and must be raped first time??
I believe hardly anyone can do this willingly. Then why, no come forward to stop this. Because we don't care. Everyone want to show that they care by showing there updates on Facebook or just talking on the same for a day or 2. But we will not take any right steps and will crib on all the things in our life.

Friends!!! Can't this be stopped, can't be proud of being a good citizen, can't be create a safe place for our family? Can't we change the future of this world by giving write support to young generation?

I Believe YES WE CAN!!! THE ONLY THING IS THAT IF WE WANT ?

N if the answer is Yes then you have to do that no one else will do that for you.

While writing all this I have not organized my thoughts but jus writing what ever random questions come to my mind.

And I dont think I had to answer any question we together have to come to answers and every individual should contribute in his betterment as a human being. Any ways we like in Jungle made of concrete where emotionless worker come and kills others for livelihood, for fun, leisure or whatever you wanna name it.

Just try to be true to yourself what wrong you have done as a human being and try to correct yourself. Then I can assure that nothing wrong cant happen.

Secondly be courageous to help others in trouble. If you dont the next one is going to be you. Belive me if no one is there at least I am there with you and people like me want support of you to come forward. I am not liking sharing this post but I think if my friends can think few minutes about this it may create a .000001% impact.

All the BEST... LETS Together CHange Ourself and Make this place a BEtter Place to LIVE.

P.S. I agree this will not change all the monsters but will change 90% remaining 10% can be taken care of!!

Ashutosh Seth(Saahil)

RELIGION DIVIDES

Few days back one of my friend suggested me to find a girl for myself.

I told its very difficult to find a girl who is Golapurab Digambar Jain. He hasn't got me. I told bro we have so many religions that to keep my family happy I have to find a girl from a particular religion. SO even I like someone I may not marry her as she is some from different caste.

Even if I convince my parents her parents may not agree. So I decided to go by my parents choices. He was not able to believe me. I told him this happens in India and day by day we are increasing more religions and sub castes.

I believe this is one of  the most common problem in today's youths life.

But this is not only problem for youths but to every segment of society. We are making so many parts that in some time it will be very difficult to find our own identity.

Remember the childhood days when the people are known by their name but not by caste. But as we grow up the CASTE dominates over everything. We just don't give job to someone as he is from different caste or we just keep separate utensils in our house for people from different caste. We make friends with people from particular caste. Even we socialize with our people only. Even if we don't our elders will tell us to do that.

All these are more visible in the form of increase in no of honor killing and many more deaths all across country.

SO now the question came if we are really independent???
N I believe we are not.

We have to set free our new generation from all these roadblocks so that they can breathe in real free air.
The young generation wanna fly and birds look beautiful when they fly in group. So if we really want to make them fly we have to overcome all these mind-blocks of religions and caste. Rather than why we don't follow a simple religion called as HUMANITY.

The modern youth want to do that also but the family and society doesn't let them do that and sooner or later they also become the part of such system.

SO the need of the time is to make the boundaries free and let the people decide what they really believe.

There are lot of problems which need a urgent resolution and not wasting our time and energy on these pity and old things, we are creating digging our own grave.

So its time for INDIA to come out of these regional and religious divides and together build a strong and real FREE NATION.

suggestions and comments are most welcome.

Ashutosh Seth