मौत से प्यार

मौत से प्यार

आज जिंदगी से ज्यादा
मौत से प्यार हो गया
समझे न हम जिसे 
अब हर पल उसे याद किया
वही तो दिलरुबा है जो 
साथ लेके जायेगी
जिंदगी तो आजमाती रही 
शायद वो साथ निभाएगी
मिले नहीं कोई साथी जब
सबसे अच्छा साथ है वो
अपनायेगी वो अगर तो
साथ लेकर जायेगी
ले जायेगी हर परवाह
हर दर्द दुःख से दूर 
करती जायेगी!!
इतनी अच्छी है 
मौत तो 
मुझसे भी दोस्ती निभाएगी
आज नहीं तो कल साथ लेके जायेगी।।।

आशुतोष सेठ "साहिल"

Reality of Today's LOVE.

Love

Really what a big word in someone's life. But definitely I should say the definition of this word is changed completely. The people used this according to their convenience.
For most now a days its sex, for someone its comfort, for few its affection, someone's status, someone's future (security), someone's shortcut to wealth.

So lets see what Saahil have to say about love.

Its pretty simple which can''t be explained is love. Honestly I am also helpless in present scenario to define love. Now its the give & take business not love anymore. I love you so you should do this for me.
I Love you so you should build house for me.

But I fell we are killing love slowly & sooner or later it will die & only lovely business will remain.

Its pretty simple dude if I love someone than I love that person for what he/ she is not what he can be may be. I may love  a beggar for some of his quality & I may not like some hot looking babe because of some attitude issues. But for most of the people, they will hate beggars & will love hot babe.

Love is the feeling of care, affection which inculcate in a person without expecting anything in return.  This is one of the best feeling in the world. Jus remember the smile on someone's face because of you. I bet that feeling will be 1000 times better than owning a 1000 crore mansion in this world but how many will care to do that. Because we love mansions not the person. For us a big car is more important than the smile on the parents face.
Now its a big pain for the person to fulfill the regular duties for their parents. Just remember selfless things which your parents may have done for you. But we are so busy to acknowledge that. So when a person cant understand that how they can understand love

Love is when we can do anything in this world to bring smile on that person face but now we care for only our happiness not someone's smile. The person may be suffering but why we should care. It is his fate or mistake and he deserve that. We are only concerned about our happiness. Where is that love of Krishna & Meera where both have not met but we remember them as the example of true love.

Dont you think today love is like a business relation where the person you love want something in return.

Now the person whom we  love should have small family, big house, fat income, good looks & so on He cares for her doesn't matter. That's why we can see so many extra marital affairs. Because when the charm of these luxury fades away then the need of that shoulder, that care, that affection comes in picture. And people still take the advantage of that also.

I am not saying loving your dreams, loving materialistic things is wrong but then we should not try to find the loving person because only one wish can be fulfilled.

But all this make me realize business of love is a good business and hence all the days - father's mother's day, valentine day, have cropped up to show our one day love. One day you will find all people become Shravan Kumar on Facebook. You will find people love their country on Independence day and rest all days they just make it miserable.

I am not saying people are wrong at their place but they want all the things at one go which is practically impossible. And then we only complain. There is no use of regretting in future for the fun of today. For kids, teenager I can still understand but for grown up people its really annoying to see the miserable life they live for artificial happiness.

Really friends this world need love and that is true love but not artificial love which we have in artificial world with artificial relations with artificial happiness.

For me love is the feeling in someone's heart of care, affection, possession, compassion, truthfulness, sacrifice, fight for someone else's happiness.

Lets make this world a beautiful place by spreading love across. This world needs loving person & loving hearts. We may have progressed but lets the love be old which we have taught the world since ages.If we can spread the love around then the anxiety, stress will go away on its own. Lets make this world a place where there is love for everyone- for fellow humans, for fellow creatures, for all..

Ashutosh Srth"Saahil"

"शुक्रियां" or Shukriya

शुक्रिया

आज मैंने सागर से बात की. 

डराना चाह रहा था वो मुझे

शोर कर रहा था,,चिल्ला रहा था

कि जा चले जा ,, पर मै अड़ गया था

कि डरूंगा नहीं ,, जाऊंगा नहीं 

बस आज  

मै भी चाहता था देखना कि वो क्या

बता रहा है.…

चिन्हाड़ा वो जॊर से,
मै भी डट गया पुरे जोर से ,

डराने आ रहा था वो सामने से ,

मै था अकेला अपनी ओर से 

मै डटा रहा वो कोशिश करता रहा

अंत मै वो बोला 

क्या हुआ है तुझे ,

क्या चाहता है मुझसे 

मैंने कहा.……

 बस तुझसा दीवानापन चाहता हू 

तुझसा गरजना चाहता हु ,,, तुझसा जीना चाहता हु और तुझसा ही 

मरना चाहता हु

तू है जैसा वैसा बहना चाहता हु !!!!

फिर भी उसने पूछा कि क्यू जानना चाहता हू 

मैंने कहा मै तुझ जैसा ही खुद मै खो जाना चाहता  हू 

वो शायद समझ गया था मुझे 

और अब समझा रहा था मुझे ,

कि रखता नहीं मैं कुछ अन्दर 

जो जैसा देता है वैसा ही लौटा देता हु

कुछ अपना कर 

और 

कुछ बहा कर

कहा उसने मुझसे 

तू भी वही अपना जो तू समां सके भीतर

और बहा दे बाकी अपने से बाहर

फिर तू मेरी तरह ही बहेगा और मुझसा ही जीवन जियेगा 

शायद बात उसकी सही थी

शायद मैं ही नहीं समझा था

कि भर जाता हूँ मै अन्दर 

नहीं कर पता कुछ बहार 

शायद मुझे भी जीना होगा समंदर की तरह 

शायद मुश्किल नहीं है जैसे को तैसा होना 

शायद मुश्किल नहीं है सब कुछ लौटा देना

शायद मुश्किल नहीं है उसकी तरह जीना 

और

जब हर शायद का जवाब है तो 

क्यू ना जवाब देकर देखा जाये

यही सोचकर किया उसे 

अलविदा और कहा 

शुक्रिया

आशुतोष सेठ (साहिल)

Shukriyaa

aaj maine saagar se baat ki 

darana chah raha tha mujhe wo

shor kar rha tha ,, chilla raha tha ,

ki ja chale ja,, par mai bhi ad gaya tha

ki darunga nai jaunga nai,,, bas aaj 

mai bhi chahta tha dekna ki wo 

kya bata raha hai

chinhaada wo jor se 

mai bhi dat gaya pure jor se

darane aa raha tha wo samne se 

mai bhi akela tha apno aoor se

mai data raha wo koshish karta raha

ant mai wo hi bola 

kya hua hai tujhe 

kya chahta hai mujhse

maine kaha bas tujhsa deewanapan chahta hu,

tujhsa garajna chahta hu,, tujhsa jina chahta hu aur tujh sa hi

marna chahta hu

tu hai jaisa waisa behna chahta hu 

fir bhi usne pucha ki kyu jaana chahta hai

maine kaha mai tujh jaisa hi khud mai kho jana chahta hu

wo sayad samajh gaya tha mujhe

aur samjha raha tha mujhe

ki rakhta nai mai kuch andar 

jo jaisa deta hai waise hi lauta deta hu 

kuch apna kar kuch bahakar

kaha usne mujhse

tubhi wahi apna jo to sama sake bhitar

aur baha de baki apne se bahar

fir na tu meri taraha hi bahega aur mujhsa hi jeevan jiyega

saaayad baat uski sahi thi 

saayad mai hi nai samjha tha

ki bhar jata hu mai andar nai

kar pata kuch baahaar

sayad muje bhi jina hoga samandar ki tarah

saayad mushkil nai hai jaise ko taisa hona

saayad mushkil nai hai sab kuch lauta dena

saayad mushkil nai hai uski tarah jina

aur 

Jab har sayaad ka jawab hai to 

ku na jawab dekar dekha jaye

ku nai nai tarh se is duniya ko dekha jaye

yahi sochkar 

kiya usse alwida

aur kaha 

SHUKRIYAA

Ashutosh Seth(Saahil)

A Random Thought !!!!

RIP Nirbhaya!

Since yesterday media is flooded with the story of the Girl Nirbhaya who got killed because of the tragic incident in her life because of some monster who roam around every part of the world.

But a random thought came into my mind that who created those monster- System, People, Girls, Culture, Upbringing, Parents, Society Or Law? Somewhere I felt all these factors have contributed a little. But basic factor behind is the mindset of the person and the fearlessness of consequences. And as a whole are we not responsible for it. We are blaming everyone else but not seeing inside.

Kabir Said-

Bura Jo dekhan mai chala, Bura na milyo koi,

Dekha jo apne aap mai, mujhse bura na koi..

We all woke all of a sudden that something wrong has happened and started shouting, blaming system and all the things in the world and after few days we will again go to sleep. Hundreds more rape has happened after that in a mean time. Had this can't be stopped????

I would like to know whether any mother has asked his son to refrain from this or they are still hiding them under their love and care. Or Any sister came in front and complaint against his brother for any wrong practice. Had any of us came forward to help a man who was in trouble. I guess the answer will be that we have not changed, we are the same as we were before this incident.

Don't you think this could have stopped if from the birth the child is given right education and guidance regarding the respect for women or I should say society as a whole. Cant it be possible that those person can be make fearful of law. But they are not as all of us let that thing happen. No one provoke corruption but we do.

Ticket nai hai -- sir 100 rs Mai kaam chala lo. Drunken driving sir 5000 Rs le ke chod do.
Murder kiya rape kiya-- mai iska ladka hu!!! mai use janta hu!!
 Don't we see these things in everyday life.

Tell me the fact that can any boy can say that he doesn't have any lust for the opposite sex. The answer for 90% will be no. Most of us have but we suppress that feeling in one way or other. If that is not the true fact then why the prostitution is increasing in India. I don't know how many of us think of this. If girls were not forced into this and must be raped first time??
I believe hardly anyone can do this willingly. Then why, no come forward to stop this. Because we don't care. Everyone want to show that they care by showing there updates on Facebook or just talking on the same for a day or 2. But we will not take any right steps and will crib on all the things in our life.

Friends!!! Can't this be stopped, can't be proud of being a good citizen, can't be create a safe place for our family? Can't we change the future of this world by giving write support to young generation?

I Believe YES WE CAN!!! THE ONLY THING IS THAT IF WE WANT ?

N if the answer is Yes then you have to do that no one else will do that for you.

While writing all this I have not organized my thoughts but jus writing what ever random questions come to my mind.

And I dont think I had to answer any question we together have to come to answers and every individual should contribute in his betterment as a human being. Any ways we like in Jungle made of concrete where emotionless worker come and kills others for livelihood, for fun, leisure or whatever you wanna name it.

Just try to be true to yourself what wrong you have done as a human being and try to correct yourself. Then I can assure that nothing wrong cant happen.

Secondly be courageous to help others in trouble. If you dont the next one is going to be you. Belive me if no one is there at least I am there with you and people like me want support of you to come forward. I am not liking sharing this post but I think if my friends can think few minutes about this it may create a .000001% impact.

All the BEST... LETS Together CHange Ourself and Make this place a BEtter Place to LIVE.

P.S. I agree this will not change all the monsters but will change 90% remaining 10% can be taken care of!!

Ashutosh Seth(Saahil)

RELIGION DIVIDES

Few days back one of my friend suggested me to find a girl for myself.

I told its very difficult to find a girl who is Golapurab Digambar Jain. He hasn't got me. I told bro we have so many religions that to keep my family happy I have to find a girl from a particular religion. SO even I like someone I may not marry her as she is some from different caste.

Even if I convince my parents her parents may not agree. So I decided to go by my parents choices. He was not able to believe me. I told him this happens in India and day by day we are increasing more religions and sub castes.

I believe this is one of  the most common problem in today's youths life.

But this is not only problem for youths but to every segment of society. We are making so many parts that in some time it will be very difficult to find our own identity.

Remember the childhood days when the people are known by their name but not by caste. But as we grow up the CASTE dominates over everything. We just don't give job to someone as he is from different caste or we just keep separate utensils in our house for people from different caste. We make friends with people from particular caste. Even we socialize with our people only. Even if we don't our elders will tell us to do that.

All these are more visible in the form of increase in no of honor killing and many more deaths all across country.

SO now the question came if we are really independent???
N I believe we are not.

We have to set free our new generation from all these roadblocks so that they can breathe in real free air.
The young generation wanna fly and birds look beautiful when they fly in group. So if we really want to make them fly we have to overcome all these mind-blocks of religions and caste. Rather than why we don't follow a simple religion called as HUMANITY.

The modern youth want to do that also but the family and society doesn't let them do that and sooner or later they also become the part of such system.

SO the need of the time is to make the boundaries free and let the people decide what they really believe.

There are lot of problems which need a urgent resolution and not wasting our time and energy on these pity and old things, we are creating digging our own grave.

So its time for INDIA to come out of these regional and religious divides and together build a strong and real FREE NATION.

suggestions and comments are most welcome.

Ashutosh Seth

E KHUDA

ऐ खुदा 

ऐ खुदा अगर  तू है,

तो 

तेरे होने का एहसास करा दे 

या तो मुझे  मेरे यार से मिला दे 

या फिर तुझ से मिला ले 

यूँ वैसे भी जिंदगी बसर करना मुश्किल है उसके बिना 

वो नहीं तो मुझे उसकी रूह से मिला de

कर लूँगा मैं इन्तेजार जितना तू कहेगा

बस मुझे मेरे यार से मिला दे..

वो तो बना चूका है खुद को पत्थर 

उसके दिल मई सोये हुए जज्बात जगा दे

रह तो नै सकता वो भी मेरे बिन 

बस उसे उसके जज्बत्तों से रूबरू करा दे
माँगा नै कभी कुछ तुझसे
बस मुझे मेरे यार से मिला दे


ऐ खुदा
मुझे,,, तेरे होने का यकीं करा दे

E Khuda Agar tu hai,

too

Tere hone ka ehsaas kara de

ya to mujhe mere yaar se mila de

ya fir tujh se mila le

yu waise bhi jindagi basar karna mushkil hai

uske bina

wo nai to mujhe uski ruh se mila de

kar lunga mai intejaar jitna tu kahega

bas mujhe mere yaar se mila de,

wo to bana chuka hai khud ko patthar

us ke dil mai soye hue ehsaas jaga de

reh to nahi sakta wo bhi mere bin

bas use uske jajbaaton se rubru karade

manga nai kabhi kuch tujhse

bas mujhe mere yaar se mila de,

ek khuda
mujhe.. tere hone ka ehsaas karade

आशुतोष सेठ "साहिल "

तुम्हारी तस्वीर और तुम

तुम से अच्छी तो तस्वीर तुम्हारी है,
साथ नही है तो क्या हुआ,
कम से कम इसे फ़िक्र हमारी है।

तुम तो कर जाते हो भीड़ मे भी तनहा,
ये तब भी हमारा साथ निभाती है,
हम जब चाहते है कुछ कहना
बोलती नही तो क्या हुआ
कम से कम बात समझ तो जाती है।

तुम साथ नही हमारे ये हम जानते है,
ये तस्वीर तुम्हारी, तुम्हारे पास ले आती है;
हंसती है, मुस्कुराती है, कभी हमें समझती है,
जब कोई नही होता आसपास,
वो ही तो साथ निभाती है।

पर

एक जगह तो भी तड़पा जाती है,
जब दिल चाहता है कुछ सुनना
वो हमसे कुछ नही कह पाती है
जब दिल हो उदास और चाहे किसी का साथ,
तब वो हमारा साथ नही दे पाती दिल।
जब दिल चाहे तुम्हे बाहों मे भर लू,
वो हमें दूरी का एहसास कराती है;

पर
तुम नही तो क्या तस्वीर तो तुम्हारी है,
जो तुम्हारे होने का एहसास कराती है,
कभी इंतजार को कम तो कभी बढ़ा जाती है,
पर कम से कम
हम होंगे साथ जरुर, इस बात का यकीं दिलाती है।

आशुतोष सेठ "साहिल"

tumhari tasveer aur tum

tum se achchhii to tasviir tumhaarii hai,
saath nahii hai to kyaa huaa,
kam se kam ise fikr hamaarii hai।

tum to kar jaate ho bhiid me bhii tanahaa,
ye tab bhii hamaaraa saath nibhaatii hai,
ham jab chaahate hai kuchh kahanaa
bolatii nahii to kyaa huaa
kam se kam baat samajh to jaatii hai।

tum saath nahii hamaare ye ham jaanate hai,
ye tasviir tumhaarii, tumhaare paas le aatii hai;
hansatii hai, muskuraatii hai, kabhii hamen samajhatii hai,
jab koee nahii hotaa aasapaas,
vo hii to saath nibhaatii hai।

par

yek jagah to bhii tadpaa jaatii hai,
jab dil chaahataa hai kuchh sunanaa
vo hamase kuchh nahii kah paatii hai
जब दिल ho उदास aur chaahe kisii का saath,
tab wo hamara saath नही दे पाती dil।
jab dil chahe tumhe baahon mai bhar lu,
wo hame doori ka ehsaas karati hai;

par
tum nahi to kya tasveer to tumhari hai,
jo tumhare hone ka ehsaas karati hai,
kabhi intzar ko kam to kabhi badha jati hai,
par kam se kam
hum honge saath jarur, is baat ka yakin dilati hai।

ashutosh seth "saahil"